In live there is always time where we make a biggest mistake and because of this some were unable to face the world. Falling down in live is part of learning process in live, but if a person can not handle the pressure, humiliation and anger, he or she will loose the confident to face the world. The most important thing is how you were able to stand up after falling down in live.
First one must be optimistic and always think the best way to gain confident. The longer the time that takes to stand up after falling down will be harder for one to gain their confident back. To be able to stand up again is not an easy task, it require tremendous effort and positive thinking. A person live might be change if he or she were able to stand up again after falling down.
Always know that falling down in live does not mean that he or she fails for the rest of their live. Actually falling down is the starting point or the beginning in live. Why I say it is the starting point or beginning, the answer is simple lets look back when you are the age of 2 or 3 where you were still a little baby that does not know how to walk and that time you never give up standing up even you falling down and by doing so you have start a new live where you learn how to walk and then how to run.
Lest take another example, a student fail in an important test. In this situation the student might think that he/she have embraced their parents or they have totally lost their confident and they have no more direction in live. In some case we often heard that student suicide after fail in an important test. If he/she were able to think more optimistic then they will see that suicide is not the solution, suicide is more like running away from the problem. Suicide will not cure the problem but it makes it worse, think about the parents feeling if the student die. There were many things that can be done even thou the student fail in the test. Face the problem and always think in a positive way. There is a malay proverb that says "hendak seribu daya, tak hendak seribu dalih" it means that, if you want something, you'll do absolutely anything to obtain it. But if you don't want something, you'll give a thousand excuses to refrain from it
First one must be optimistic and always think the best way to gain confident. The longer the time that takes to stand up after falling down will be harder for one to gain their confident back. To be able to stand up again is not an easy task, it require tremendous effort and positive thinking. A person live might be change if he or she were able to stand up again after falling down.
Always know that falling down in live does not mean that he or she fails for the rest of their live. Actually falling down is the starting point or the beginning in live. Why I say it is the starting point or beginning, the answer is simple lets look back when you are the age of 2 or 3 where you were still a little baby that does not know how to walk and that time you never give up standing up even you falling down and by doing so you have start a new live where you learn how to walk and then how to run.
Lest take another example, a student fail in an important test. In this situation the student might think that he/she have embraced their parents or they have totally lost their confident and they have no more direction in live. In some case we often heard that student suicide after fail in an important test. If he/she were able to think more optimistic then they will see that suicide is not the solution, suicide is more like running away from the problem. Suicide will not cure the problem but it makes it worse, think about the parents feeling if the student die. There were many things that can be done even thou the student fail in the test. Face the problem and always think in a positive way. There is a malay proverb that says "hendak seribu daya, tak hendak seribu dalih" it means that, if you want something, you'll do absolutely anything to obtain it. But if you don't want something, you'll give a thousand excuses to refrain from it
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